Dr. Phyllis W. Sanders discusses her work, ‘Gaining Wisdom Through Vital Conversations: Voices of the Aging’
April 26, 2024
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Dr. Phyllis W. Sanders, Vital Congregations Coordinator for Trinity Presbytery, took on the study “Gaining Wisdom Through Vital Conversations: Voices of the Aging” because of what she calls “my innermost desire to continue to learn from the elderly.”
The seven women and men Sanders interviewed for the project are between the ages of 91 and 104. The report is the second installment in an Older Adult Ministry Project Report.
“I chose to interview the oldest adult individuals because they make up the largest population in most churches, especially since the pandemic,” Sanders wrote in her report. “Yet, the clarion call that is being made is for younger people.”
For Sanders, an important consideration was, “How do church leaders utilize older adults to gather information about their experience, wisdom about what the church has done in the past, and thoughts about what the church can do to grow in the future?”
Each of the seven people Sanders interviewed has been with the Presbyterian church for more than 70 years. “Should their thoughts and opinions be ignored?” Sanders asked. “Their lifelong discipleship formation has been shaped by the Presbyterian Church. They are living a long life, and they recognize there are reasons for their longevity.”
Asked about what they attribute to living their long life, a 103-year-old woman said, “God’s grace.” Two others — one 104, the other 91 — said it was healthy eating, while the 104-year-old added, “having fun and staying who you are and having good friends.”
The 103-year-old is still in her home and has lived in the same community for more than 60 years, in a neighborhood where everyone knows her. All five of her children call her every day and make one or more visits each day. She remains politically involved with city and state officials. She attends church most Sundays, and members bring her food and goodies on a regular basis.
When fellow members of her church visit people who are sick or shut in, the 104-year-old often accompanies them.
Dr. Phyllis Sanders
When asked how churches can become more vital for meeting the needs of the congregation, one 95-year-old responded with, “churches should have mixed music, hymns and gospel music.” Another 95-year-old suggested “there needs to be more teaching in the preaching for both adults and children to learn and apply it in their life.” A 91-year-old believes that the churches “must keep God at the center of our lives” and that Satan “wants to stick his head in the church, and if the church allows him to stay, people will have lots of trouble.”
The 103-year-old contended that these days, “churches are like social clubs, with no respect for worship.” Many churches “have lost their vitality for discipleship and fellowship,” this woman said. The 104-year-old said, “Sitting at home on the computer for church does not have the same effect as being in the church among others.”
“Preaching things contrary to the Bible is wicked, and God is not pleased with wickedness,” said a 91-year-old man. “Be careful with who you put in the pulpit. It can destroy a church rather than build a church.”
“This practicum experience was most meaningful,” Sanders wrote in the report. “It allowed me to review the research and apply it to what I observed, heard, and felt during my time with seven men and women who have lived to be in the ninth decade of life.”
Asking questions, according to Sanders, “can be the single most important factor in stimulating and enlivening participation in adult discussions.” It “was interesting to hear,” Sanders said, “that all of the interviewees had daily interactions, either with family and friends or through activities, telephone calls and group games.”
Dr. Phyllis W. Sanders is Vital Congregations coordinator for Trinity Presbytery, a Matthew 25 presbytery. Among those Sanders thanks for their participation in the “Vital Conversations: Voices of the Aging” project are Corine Lytle Cannon of the Presbytery of Charlotte; Jean Bell, Herbert Croxton, Willie Pollin and Nancy Scott, all of Trinity Presbytery; Sarada Mitchell of National Capital Presbytery; and Margaet Spinks of Salem Presbytery.
Mike Ferguson, Editor, Presbyterian News Service
Today’s Focus: Dr. Phyllis W. Sanders, Vital Congregations Coordinator for Trinity Presbytery
Let us join in prayer for:
PC(USA) Agencies’ Staff
Magdy Girgis, Middle Eastern Intercultural Ministries, Racial Equity & Women’s Intercultural Ministries, Presbyterian Mission Agency
Tammy Gish, Treasurer, Controllers, Presbyterian Foundation
Let us pray
Faithful God, empower these pastors for your ministry, and help them bear witness to their faith in the Living Lord as they strive to help. Glorify your name through shared witness. Amen.
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