Saturday, August 31, 2024

Today in the Mission Yearbook - ‘Our ancestors’ wildest dreams’

Beloved former Stated Clerk, the Rev. Dr. J. Herbert Nelson, II, is honored for his unparalleled legacy of witnessing to God’s justice

August 31, 2024

The Rev. Dr. J. Herbert Nelson, II, was honored at a dinner and 

tribute by colleagues, friends and family. More than 800 people 

attended the event. (Photo by Kristen Gaydos)

In an ecclesiastical tribute — brimming over with affection, admiration, gratitude, tears, laughter and just the occasional touch of irreverence — the Rev. Dr. J. Herbert Nelson, II, was joyfully celebrated for changing the denomination that shaped and changed him.

Nelson, a third-generation Presbyterian pastor and the first Black man chosen as the top ecclesial officer of the PC(USA), was elected as Stated Clerk by the 222nd General Assembly (2016), a role in which he served for seven years before stepping down on June 30, 2023.

“Our church is more courageous, more faithful and more willing to risk because you said yes,” Ruling Elder Sara Lisherness, deputy executive director for Mission Program for the Presbyterian Mission Agency, would later say.

And as speaker after speaker took the stage — or bore witness via video —  new and revealing insights into the much-loved former Stated Clerk’s life, family and ministry emerged.

Introduced as “a tall handsome bloke with a captivating smile” by the Rev. Dr. Chenyangu “Cheni” Khonje, a member of the Committee on the Office of the General Assembly who emceed the evening, Nelson loomed large in the gathering of some 800 Assembly attendees, his beloved wife, the Rev. Gail Porter Nelson, and their daughter, Alycia Yvette Nelson, by his side.

Parallel themes of faith and foolishness — for Christ — were echoed by each presenter.

A moving tribute from Amy Kym Kyremes-Parks, director of Formation for Children and Their Families at Grace Covenant Presbyterian Church in Asheville, North Carolina, brought the room to tears.

She recalled how the Nelsons “adopted a 16-year-old girl from Salt Lake City,” taking Kyremes-Parks to the emergency room after a fall at Montreat Conference Center.

“While he can act a fool, he is still so modest,” she said. “He saw my snark and my cheekiness, and our lives were woven together forever. Mama Gail, thank you for serving faithfully in your support, seen and unseen; Alycia, for sharing your daddy with me and so many others; and daddy, for loving me, our family, and this world. Thank you for loving our beautiful and broken denomination. You are our ancestors’ wildest dreams.”

The Rev. Dr. J. Herbert Nelson, his daughter Alycia Yvette Nelson, 

and his wife, the Rev. Gail Porter Nelson, at the conclusion of the 

tribute. (Photo by Kristen Gaydos)

Throughout the evening, Nelson was lauded for cultivating young adult leadership and, in all things, for his never-ending commitment to addressing the world’s greatest social justice challenges such as poverty, discrimination, and gun violence.

The Rev. Edwin González-Castillo, director of Presbyterian Disaster Assistance, said that what stood out for him in Nelson’s legacy was his quest for justice.

Of Nelson’s “Hands & Feet” initiative, which emphasized mission involvement with the cities hosting the biennial meeting of the General Assembly, González-Castillo said, “You would not only preach about justice and love but teach us to put that into practice every day of our lives.”

Another of the evening’s funniest lines came from the Rev. Carol McDonald, moderator of the Stated Clerk Nomination Committee that selected Nelson, when she recalled something that he said at the Synod of Lakes and Prairies’ Synod School.

“Get up off your blessed assurances and do something for Jesus,” she said to peals of laughter.

The evening concluded with remarks from Nelson himself, as well as daughter Alycia and wife Gail.

After sharing highlights of the remarkable story of his own life, Nelson said, “If there’s anything where I would give a word, it would simply be not to ever allow that which God has given you to be caught in fear. The Lord has already made the decision, and will remind us each and every day what our calling is.”

Nelson, having earlier shared what a challenge it was trying to keep his daughter, who, like him, was a preacher’s kid, in school, fittingly Gail Nelson — a powerful source of support throughout Nelson’s ministry and a great preacher in her own right — had the last word.

“I want to thank the committee who made this evening possible,” she said, “and just so you can hear the end of the story, Alycia turned out very well!”

Emily Enders Odom, Associate Director of Mission Communications, Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.)

Today’s Focus: Former Stated Clerk, the Rev. Dr. J. Herbert Nelson, II, is honored at General Assembly

Let us join in prayer for:

PC(USA) Agencies’ Staff
Doug Portz, Vice President, Church Relations, Board of Pensions
Sonia Prescott, Reference & Outreach Archivist, Presbyterian Historical Society

Let us pray

God of earth and altar, may the bread we share bring your life in abundance to all the peoples of the earth. Amen.

Friday, August 30, 2024

Today in the Mission Yearbook - Be part of the change you want to be, even if the table is not ready for you

African American Mid Council Leaders hold a two-day retreat

August 30, 2024

From left, the Rev. Dr. Danny Murphy, the Rev. Dr. SanDawna 

Gaulman Ashley and the Rev. Byron Wade, members of the African 

American Mid Council Leaders. (Photo by Kristen Gaydos)

After meeting in a retreat for two days ahead of the 226th General Assembly, members of the African American Mid Council Leaders (AAMCL) spoke with Presbyterian News Service about some of the challenges both African American congregations and pastor face moving forward.

The three leaders who took time to speak with PNS are:

Of the 12 leaders gathered June 27–28, some of the PC(USA)’s largest mid councils, including Synod of the Northeast, Synod of the Mid-Atlantic, the Presbytery of Coastal Carolina, the Presbytery of Greater Atlanta, the Presbytery of New Hope, the Presbytery of Baltimore and the Presbytery of New York City, were represented.

“The group has been going forever and a day,” said Murphy, himself a member for 36 years.

“It was important to have the opportunity to gather at this time,” said Gaulman Ashley. “Supporting small churches is something we are all concerned about, and we realize this is the time we have to be strategic and intentional about how we are resourcing.”

Fully four in five predominantly African American churches in the PC(USA) are without installed leadership, the leaders noted.

Wade said it was the first time he’d attended an AAMCL meeting.

“I learned the importance of fellowship,” he said. African American mid council leaders “don’t often have a chance to see one another. It was an encouraging fellowship time.”

The mid council leaders heard a presentation by the Rev. Warren J. Lesane Jr., stated clerk for the Synod of the Mid-Atlantic, who’s working on the Next Generation Initiative to help fill pastoral vacancies in that synod. Lesane’s goal is to cultivate a vibrant community of Black Presbyterian congregations through visionary leadership and strategic planning. Wade said the hope is the initiative will serve as a pilot for churches across the country.

The Rev. Dr. Jerry L. Cannon, vice president for Ministry Innovation at the Board of Pensions, led those gathered on the Board’s support for congregations of color, emphasizing the importance of minimum salary, pension and medical benefits.

Murphy said AAMCL’s purpose is threefold:

  • To provide a collaborative platform for African American leaders to address the unique challenges and opportunities within majority white ministry contexts.
  • To advocate for the needs of African American congregations and pastors.
  • To promote leadership development, equity and inclusion with the PC(USA).

Leaders plan to explore how to partner with the Jesse C. Swanigan Scholars Program, a one-year educational fellowship program designed to nurture and support people of color by obtaining mid council executive leadership education in the PC(USA). The Synod of Mid-America is covering the costs associated with the program.

The mid council leaders have chosen Sheena Iyengar’s book “Think Bigger” to discuss. The book explores how individuals and organizations can foster innovation by challenging conventional thinking, embracing diverse perspectives, and utilizing strategies to enhance creativity and problem-solving skills.

“We have learned to stay at the table to be a part of the important conversations,” Gaulman Ashley said. “We recognize this is a calling to this particular role [of mid council leadership]. It’s important to understand the work and be a part of the change we want to see, even if the table is not ready for you.”

Ministry administration is hard, “and it’s hard across the board,” she said. Synods have “responsibilities for resourcing presbyteries and pastors, but you’re not doing the work. You’re a resource, and it takes a while to get things done. There’s a great sense of urgency to find solutions.”

African American pastors “have never been able to serve just their congregations,” she said. Many are also public theologians who are engaged as community leaders as well. And that’s not limited to urban settings, she said, adding, “rural churches have that need.”

“What the larger church can learn from African American churches is we have always had to do more with less,” Wade said.

Mike Ferguson, Editor, Presbyterian News Service

Today’s Focus: African American Mid Council Leaders (AAMCL) hold a two-day retreat

Let us join in prayer for:

PC(USA) Agencies’ Staff
Cristina Pitts, Mission Specialist, Latin American & the Caribbean office, Presbyterian Mission Agency
Irv Porter, Associate, Native American Intercultural Congregational Support, Presbyterian Mission Agency

Let us pray

God of mercy, we are grateful that new life can arise from loss. We give thanks for those who give of themselves so that others might have hope. Amen.

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